nor something unique to us either as we sit and chat wine in hand perched under blankets on the living room couch we do what generations of humans before us have done lament the passing days uplift the beauty of life experience and ache for more as we live out our days yet as we sip and ponder each alone and both together it is quick to be missed the small sparkle the tiny glimmer that reminds us if we pay attention that while this thing we are doing in sitting and talking it out is an age old practice of human nature it too is us each together creating something entirely new little bits of time that make all the difference when we sit and chat wine in hand~